Who are your friends?

Over the past three years, I have been trying to develop the ability to judge “true friends” from the “fake ass wanna be friends” that just use you for their own benefit.

Don’t you hate being fooled by those “fakes” that say the right things, at the right time then show their true colors later?  Takes any amount of respect I had for that person and flushes it right down the toilet.

I don’t fake friendship.  You either know if I like you or don’t.  When I dislike someone I pretty much block them out of my life.  Even if they are right in front of me talking, shouting, etc.  If I don’t have to utter one word, not a single breath on this person, I won’t.

I would much rather save my breath for my friends and family that I care about and they care about me.  Appreciating a true friend is so important.  My true friends have been in my life supporting me during the toughest of times.  In return, I am there for them.

I don’t need fake friends.  I especially don’t need fake friends who testify on my husband’s behalf to make me look bad.  Just so everyone knows, the truth will eventually come out and it won’t matter what John’s witnesses have been coached to say.

Fake friends apply elsewhere,




2 hours at York County Courthouse

Well, the day finally arrived.   Custody hearing was scheduled for 1:30 pm today.  This hearing was a “special hearing” and scheduled over a month ago.  So much for special.

My son Jarrid was at the courthouse at 1 pm.  Dale, Kristin, Kym and I arrived at 1:15.  My lawyer, Rob Krug was already there.  John was present and had Heather, LaDonna, Diane (first wife) and Todd (step-son) there.  I feel a bit bad that he is dragging all these people in to testify.  I said hi to Diane and Todd.  LaDonna came over and we chatted for a good while.  I hadn’t seen her wedding rings in person yet.

Well, I don’t feel bad for Heather.  Her testimony should be interesting.   Maybe John’s attorney, Doug France won’t have her testify.  I didn’t see John’s other attorney, Laurin Kearny.  She was ripped up one side and down the other by Judge Dorney during one of the previous hearing.  I found it very amusing….

There was no testimony today.  The custody hearing before ours was running way over its scheduled time.  Judge Dorney insisted we wait and finally around 3:30 pm she sent out a note rescheduling for tomorrow at 1:30 pm.  What a wasted day.  I missed classes today, will miss classes tomorrow and lose most of Friday with all this court dates.

How frustrating!  So tomorrow, John and crew will take the stand as he is the complainant.  Friday myself, Dale and Jarrid will testify.  Of course we can recall any of John’s witnesses and question John.

Will keep you posted!!

Thanks for all your messages and visits today!

Back to feeding the meters tomorrow,


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